Sam Simmons · Follow
4 min read · Apr 2, 2020
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No one can’t deny the beauty every Asian woman possesses. With a unique sense of beauty, rich cultural background, and commitment, it’s no wonder that men all over the world fall head over heels for them.
If you want to take up your chances to date an Asian girl, you might crash and burn if you don’t know the first thing about dating one. So here are some tips to help you with your Asian dating game. If all goes well, you might even create a good first impression. Not just to her, but her family as well. Good luck!
Asia is the world’s largest continent. From that alone, you can expect a mix of different cultures, traditions, physical appearances, and many more. Just because a girl says she’s from Asia doesn’t automatically mean she has the same almond-shaped eyes, petite figure, pale skin, and straight hair as the western movies usually portray them. My mother is Filipino, and she’s not any of those things. She has lovely brown skin, round eyes, wavy hair, and a little bit on the curvy side.
The age gap between couples was never a factor in Asian countries. On the contrary, Asian women often prefer their partners to be older rather than younger or of the same age.
They aren’t what people in the western culture consider as desperate or unlovable, but it’s more of a preference since they view older men to be more secure, mature, and have everything figured out.
When you meet a girl in the old fashion way or online, never assume her nationality. She may look Korean, but in truth, she was Cambodian. So instead of trying to get a good impression by saying Hi in her native language, just say the ever fool-proof Hello in English.
This might save you time and from humiliation.
It’s no secret that Asian families come in large numbers. Often having relatives living together in one house or compound. When dating an Asian girl, you have to understand that you’ll always come second to her family. That’s how close they are.
Her obligations to her aging parents and grandparents are also a part of the mix. If you go and marry an Asian girl, you can expect to be a part of those filial duties, whether it be financial or emotional support.
In some cases, families come into a Take It or Leave It situation. If you’re not accepted by her family, then you have to work hard to make them like you. If it’s the other way around, you have to learn to like them or not be with her at all. There’s no middle ground.
It’s already bad enough that Asian women are the most fetishized people on the internet. Never fetishize your partner because of her nationality. Asian women want to be loved for their personality and femininity.
Who wouldn’t?
Respect is one of the very first things that comes into a genuine relationship. And if you only identify her as someone who fits a specific type that you like, that’s not much to go on there if her personality is not that one thing that would ultimately charm you.
Asian girls are often very fond of eating. So whenever you’re hanging out together, you can expect that your dates usually would involve food trips, experimenting with different cuisines, and cooking. Though it’s also worth pointing out that Asia consists of many religions that go against eating certain types of meat or dish. So you better be prepared at what food she’s willing to eat as this can quickly get confusing.
As a man dating an Asian girl, you can expect a great probability that she’ll have a raging social life online. They love taking pictures of anything (especially selfies, food, and places) and share it with their online friends.
Though this is not a particularly big issue, other guys find it irritating when their girlfriends are always on their phones and posting stuff on social networking sites. But that’s something you will have to reconsider if you’re really up on dating Asian women.
If things are starting to get serious with your Asian girlfriend, you should be prepared to meet her family. What I mean by family is not just her parents and siblings, you would also likely meet her grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, and nieces.
Remember that most Asians come from large families. So don’t be surprised once you step foot on her childhood home, you’ll get to meet family members from three different generations.
Asians have different standards when it comes to what’s presentable and what’s not. So it’s completely understandable if Asian girls prefer to date guys that dress smart rather than in a ragged t-shirt and tattered pants.
The title of this point doesn’t imply that Asian women are submissive. I am just inferring that Asian women are attracted to men who are independent and have everything in their lives figured out. This is a fairly common misconception about Asian women I see in articles online. Someone they would be proud to introduce to their family.
It doesn’t mean that you have to be as wealthy as Bill Gates, but at least you’re able to support yourself and not depend on the allowance from your parents. Unless you’re still underage.
